Sometimes it is good to sit with things, to allow for time, to process them so that you don't react without thinking.
BUT there are exceptions...
For the past two weeks I’ve grown tired of hearing the things that people think they should say.
Be here with me, not for me.
Don’t be sorry.
I have not lost anything. It' not a loss unless you allow it to be.
“You -you alone will have the stars as no one else has them...In one of the stars I shall be living. In one of them I shall be laughing. And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing, when you look at the sky at night...You -only you- will have stars that can laugh.”
- Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince